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The Importance of Deliberate Decision-Making: Why Taking Time Matters, Especially in Medical Decisions


#Useyourbrain Use Your Brain. It could change your life
Use your brain

It could change your life

And NEVER believe people at face people

People lie

Verify what they tell you and then there's always Google, ChatGPT or other search engines

AND definitely NEVER take a medical physician as being correct in all cases

Get a 2nd, 3rd or 4th opinion

Mom believed a doctor's words

Had she gotten a 2nd opinion it's VERY possible she would've gotten her cancer diagnosis earlier

Now she trusts NOBODY! She questions EVERYONE>!

Use your brain It could change your life





Use your brain It could change your life



Click here to read Making Decisions

Click here to read Meking Medical Decisions



In our fast-paced world, where instant gratification often overshadows careful consideration, the art of deliberation can seem like a lost skill. Yet, taking the time to thoroughly contemplate decisions—particularly major ones like medical choices—can be transformative. It’s not merely about delaying action; it's about ensuring that our decisions are informed, thoughtful, and aligned with our values and goals.

The Power of Pause

Decision-making, especially when it involves significant consequences, benefits immensely from a pause. This is not to say that procrastination is the goal; rather, it’s about giving ourselves the space to reflect deeply. When we rush, we risk missing crucial information, overlooking potential consequences, and making choices that might not align with our long-term interests.

Medical Decisions: A Case for Caution

Medical decisions are a prime example of where taking time is crucial. The stakes are high—our health and well-being hang in the balance. Whether it’s choosing a treatment plan, opting for surgery, or deciding on a preventive measure, each choice carries its own set of risks and benefits. Rushing through these decisions can lead to regret and unforeseen complications.

For instance, a person diagnosed with a chronic condition might be faced with various treatment options. Each treatment comes with its own set of potential outcomes, side effects, and lifestyle impacts. Without taking the time to understand these aspects fully, one might opt for a treatment that seems appealing in the short term but proves to be less effective or more disruptive in the long run.

Gathering Information and Seeking Perspectives

One of the key benefits of taking time to make decisions is the opportunity to gather comprehensive information. This might involve researching different options, seeking second opinions from specialists, or discussing the potential impacts with loved ones. By doing so, we can make decisions that are not only informed by medical facts but also resonate with our personal values and lifestyle preferences.

In the realm of medicine, this could mean exploring alternative treatments, understanding the latest research, or weighing the pros and cons of invasive procedures versus non-invasive ones. Engaging with healthcare professionals and asking detailed questions ensures that you are making a decision based on a thorough understanding of your options.

Emotional and Psychological Readiness

Taking time also allows us to evaluate our emotional and psychological readiness. Major decisions, especially those related to health, can be overwhelming. By allowing ourselves time to process our emotions and reflect on our values, we can make choices that not only address our physical needs but also support our mental and emotional well-being.

For example, a patient considering a major surgery might need time to come to terms with the potential changes to their daily life and self-image. This period of reflection can help in setting realistic expectations and preparing mentally for the recovery process.

Long-Term Implications

Decisions made in haste often fail to consider long-term implications. In medical scenarios, this could mean overlooking the cumulative effects of a treatment plan or failing to anticipate the future impact of a lifestyle change. Taking time ensures that we consider how our choices fit into our long-term health goals and overall quality of life.

Conclusion

In summary, while the modern world often pushes for quick decisions, the value of taking time to think through major choices, especially medical ones, cannot be overstated. It’s about ensuring that our decisions are as informed, thoughtful, and aligned with our long-term well-being as possible. So next time you face a significant decision, remember: a deliberate pause can be the key to making choices that truly serve your best interests.



Senior in parking lot
Video from Pubity at https://www.tiktok.com/@pubity

EVERY senior community needs an inoperable car with working radio in their parking lot. That way the senior can sit in it rocking out for the memories. For some that might be the only joy they have in life, especially if their families have taken them to senior communities or nursing homes and rarely, if ever, visit.

Me dancing

Homeless Woman Cycles Between Streets And Hotels After Husband Dies - 1

We think ALL HUD housing needs Solar. Just think of all the money they'd save the government!

Susan Auslander, age 89, Spearheaded a Solar-Energy Drive in Connecticut and it worked!

An octogenarian Hunter College alumna has spearheaded a successful drive to install solar panels throughout her Connecticut retirement community — and she’s just getting started.

(This was not for low income housing, but it could be.)

CLICK HERE TO READ WHAT SHE DID

Her Retirement Home Said ‘No’ to Solar Panels. She Got It to Buy 1,344.
In what seemed like a futile fight with her retirement community’s management, Susan Auslander, just shy of 90, found an opening.
CLICK HERE TO READ MORE ABOUT WHAT Susan Auslander did

Things my mom did when she lived in MN before she came back home to Colorado (Click news article name to read more.)

Got a bus stop at the library
and
Marshall woman petitions to have bus stop at library


Helped turn ALL HUD housing into non-smoking
Another game-changer in the works to eliminate smoking
and
HUD SECRETARY CASTRO ANNOUNCES PUBLIC HOUSING TO BE SMOKE-FREE
New rule protects health and safety of residents, saves PHAs millions of dollars in preventable damage


Nov 30, 2016
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), HUD's national smoke-free policy will save public housing agencies $153 million every year in repairs and preventable fires, including $94 million in secondhand smoke-related health care, $43 million in renovation of smoking-permitted units, and $16
https://archives.hud.gov/news/2016/pr16-184.cfm#:~:text=According%20to%20the%20Centers%20for,smoking%2Dpermitted%20units%2C%20and%20%2416

(Just think of how much it would save our government to add solar to HUD/low income housing!)


How To Use The Internet To Pay For Your Dental Bills

This is how mom got the funds to finance some of her dental work 8 years ago

(THE LINKS THEY TALK ABOUT FOR MOM ARE NO LONGER VALID - THIS WAS FILMED 8 YEARS AGO)

This is mom's interview on a National podcast. She was also interviewed by NBC National News about the harassment and stalking she's endured in 1994. It's off-and-on to this day, December 13, 2023.

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