Building a Strong Foundation: The Importance of Dating and Getting to Know Someone Before Marriage
In a world that often moves at a rapid pace, the concept of dating and taking the time to truly get to know someone before tying the knot might seem old-fashioned to some. However, the importance of this pre-marital phase cannot be overstated. Building a strong foundation through dating is not just a romantic notion but a practical approach that can contribute significantly to the success and longevity of a marriage.
One of the key aspects of dating is the opportunity it provides for individuals to understand each other's values, beliefs, and goals. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and having aligned values is crucial for a harmonious partnership. Through dating, couples can engage in meaningful conversations about their aspirations, moral compass, and the way they envision their futures. This shared understanding lays the groundwork for a more resilient and enduring relationship.
Moreover, dating allows individuals to witness their partner's behavior in a variety of situations. While initial impressions can be important, observing how someone handles stress, interacts with family and friends, and navigates challenges provides a more comprehensive understanding of their character. These insights can be invaluable in making informed decisions about compatibility and long-term suitability.
Communication is another vital aspect that is honed during the dating phase. Effective communication is the backbone of any successful relationship, and dating allows couples to practice and refine this skill. From discussing trivial matters to addressing more complex issues, open and honest communication fosters trust and mutual understanding. Learning to express feelings, needs, and concerns sets the stage for a healthier and more resilient marriage.
Beyond personal traits, dating provides an opportunity to explore each other's interests and hobbies. Shared activities not only create lasting memories but also contribute to the development of a deeper connection. Whether it's trying new cuisines, participating in outdoor activities, or attending cultural events, these shared experiences strengthen the bond between individuals and create a reservoir of positive memories to draw upon during challenging times.
It's important to note that dating is not solely about identifying compatibility; it's also about navigating differences and resolving conflicts. Every relationship faces challenges, and dating allows couples to learn how to address disagreements constructively. Developing conflict resolution skills early on can prevent small issues from escalating into larger problems down the road.
Additionally, pre-marital counseling can be a valuable component of the dating process. Seeking guidance from a professional helps couples explore topics such as financial management, future family planning, and potential areas of conflict. Addressing these issues beforehand can mitigate misunderstandings and promote a smoother transition into married life.
In conclusion, dating and getting to know someone before marriage is not just a romantic tradition but a strategic investment in the future of the relationship. Building a strong foundation through shared experiences, open communication, and a deep understanding of each other's values can contribute significantly to the success of a marriage. Taking the time to invest in the dating phase can lead to a more fulfilling and enduring partnership, laying the groundwork for a lifetime of love and happiness.
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EVERY senior community needs an inoperable car with working radio in their parking lot. That way the senior can sit in it rocking out for the memories. For some that might be the only joy they have in life, especially if their families have taken them to senior communities or nursing homes and rarely, if ever, visit.
We think ALL HUD housing needs Solar. Just think of all the money they'd save the government!
Susan Auslander, age 89, Spearheaded a Solar-Energy Drive in Connecticut and it worked!
An octogenarian Hunter College alumna has spearheaded a successful drive to install solar panels throughout her Connecticut retirement community — and she’s just getting started.
(This was not for low income housing, but it could be.)
CLICK HERE TO READ WHAT SHE DID
Her Retirement Home Said ‘No’ to Solar Panels. She Got It to Buy 1,344.
In what seemed like a futile fight with her retirement community’s management, Susan Auslander, just shy of 90, found an opening.
CLICK HERE TO READ MORE ABOUT WHAT Susan Auslander did
Things my mom did when she lived in MN before she came back home to Colorado (Click news article name to read more.)
Got a bus stop at the library
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Marshall woman petitions to have bus stop at library
Helped turn ALL HUD housing into non-smoking
Another game-changer in the works to eliminate smoking
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HUD SECRETARY CASTRO ANNOUNCES PUBLIC HOUSING TO BE SMOKE-FREE
New rule protects health and safety of residents, saves PHAs millions of dollars in preventable damage
Nov 30, 2016
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), HUD's national smoke-free policy will save public housing agencies $153 million every year in repairs and preventable fires, including $94 million in secondhand smoke-related health care, $43 million in renovation of smoking-permitted units, and $16
https://archives.hud.gov/news/2016/pr16-184.cfm#:~:text=According%20to%20the%20Centers%20for,smoking%2Dpermitted%20units%2C%20and%20%2416
(Just think of how much it would save our government to add solar to HUD/low income housing!)
How To Use The Internet To Pay For Your Dental Bills
This is how mom got the funds to finance some of her dental work 8 years ago
(THE LINKS THEY TALK ABOUT FOR MOM ARE NO LONGER VALID - THIS WAS FILMED 8 YEARS AGO)
This is mom's interview on a National podcast. She was also interviewed by NBC National News about the harassment and stalking she's endured in 1994. It's off-and-on to this day, December 13, 2023.
